Conscious, Connected, & Creative
Parenting
We all do the best we can with the knowledge and resources we have. Despite our best efforts, sometimes it doesn’t feel like enough.
Do any of these statements resonate with you?
I feel like my kids are intentionally ignoring or defying me.
I’m exhausted from daily battles about everything!
I want to adopt gentle or conscious parenting practices but my childs behavior makes it so hard to keep my cool.
I need confidence to parent in a way that goes against my family’s expectations, traditions or culture.
I want to parent differently, but I’m scared it might not work.
If so, I’d love to support you!
I’m passionate about helping parents—especially Black moms—break the cycle of frustration, yelling, and ineffective discipline. Together, we’ll build tools for parenting and guiding your children in conscious, connected, and effective ways.
What Is Conscious Parenting?
At the heart of my work is the belief that parenting is not just a set of strategies—it’s a deeply personal and political journey that shapes and transforms both child and adult. My classes, and coaching are grounded in the principles of Conscious Parenting—an approach that brings critical awareness to every aspect of our parenting practice.
Conscious Parenting is Not
Making sure children are always happy
Being perpetually calm, quiet, & “gentle”
Choosing timeouts over spankings
Permissive, hands-off parenting.
How is “Conscious” Defined?
Awake, aware of what is happening around you, and able to think.
Perceiving or noticing with a degree of controlled thought or observation.
Done or acting with critical awareness.
Awareness of an inward state or outward fact.
Aware of one's own existence, sensations, thoughts, surroundings.
Consciousness is about awareness, intentionality, and clarity of purpose. Conscious parenting invites us to examine the full context of our lives—our histories, our communities, our identities—and recognize how these elements shape our responses to our children. It asks us to move away from automatic, reactive behaviors, often influenced by external factors and into a space of intentional, responsive decision-making that honors both ourselves and the unique individuals we are raising.
We acknowledge that:
Parenting does not happen in a vacuum. It is influenced by familial, cultural, historical, political, and economic systems.
Each child is unique and deserves support that is developmentally appropriate and attuned to their specific temperament and needs.
This is a life-long journey, requiring daily effort. There with inevitable setbacks and failures along the way. Perfection is not the goal. Consciousness is.
“Awareness creates the possibility for choice.”
- Dr. Daniel J. Siegel
Having choices is liberating! Conscious Parenting is liberatory work!
Conscious and Creative Connections is designed to support the journey toward liberation—for you, and for your child. Through classes, coaching, and community, we help you move from surviving to thriving, equipped with the tools, insights, and support to parent with clarity, emphasizing connection, and consciousness.
Statistically, the average parent begins hitting their kids at age 2. It is my goal to reach parents before they choose to control their children’s behavior in this manner.
With my support, you will:
Uncover and do the self-healing work to identify and manage your triggers.
Identify the cultural and systemic mindsets that impact your parenting style.
Learn research based strategies to discipline and parent more effectively,
Be confident that you are giving your child the life-long skills they need to be happy.
Conscious Parenting Services
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Conscious and Connected Community
If you're seeking a blend of live and self-paced content, our community is the perfect fit for you! Unlock unlimited access to a rich library of self-paced and pre-recorded classes, along with exclusive entry to all upcoming live sessions, all bundled into one affordable monthly subscription.
Pay only $15 your first month using Discount Code: First15
Cancel at Any Time!
$20 per month
Community Resources
You will have unlimited access to:
Self paced courses including, Conscious and Connected Discipline - A Beginner’s Guide to Breaking Generational Cycles, which includes over a dozen videos of conscious parenting in action | $75 value
Live Monthly Classes and Q& A Sessions, where you get to ask questions and share your concerns | $100 monthly value
Access to all past workshops, slides and resources. (See previous topics below) |Over $500 value
Exclusive Downloadable scripts, Ebooks and “Cheat Sheets” to help you find the words and approaches for in-the-moment challenges | $150 value
A community of like minded caregivers to connect with | $ Priceless
The list and value will just continue to grow!
Past Topics
All past session videos and resources are available in the community
Effective Communication
Limits and Boundaries vs. Rules
Identifying Triggers and Self Regulation
Parenting for the Future w/ special Guest DJ Johnson, Parenting coach and Counselor to teens
Conscious “Partnering” w/ Special Guest Cristina aka @montessori_madre, therapist, homeschooling mom and influencer
Navigating Tantrums and Emotional Dysregulation Part 1
Navigating Tantrums and Emotional Dysregulation Part 2
Supporting the Development of Executive Functioning Skills
Discipline Without Punishment
Liberation Starts at Home: Anti-Oppressive Practices for Peaceful Parenting with Janelle Scales
Martyr Based Motherhood with Ambreia Meadows-Fernandez
Decolonize Your Parenting w/ Yolanda Williams
Community
One of the hardest parts of parenting in a more conscious way— is feeling like you’re doing it alone.
You might find yourself constantly wondering:
Am I on the right track?
Should it be this hard?
Is my child’s behavior normal?
What does this actually look like in real life?
It’s natural to want to share struggles and wins, ask questions, see how others apply conscious parenting, or simply feel heard as you navigate this approach.
Instead you realize you’re:
The only person in your circle trying to break cycles.
Facing judgement and criticism from people closest to you.
The Conscious and Connected Community is here to change that!
Each live session will provide support and inspiration by featuring a combination of the following:
A short talk from me or a guest addressing a parent-related topic.
Space for questions & brainstorming.
Group and breakout room discussions and connection opportunites
LIVE Meetings will take place via zoom
Dates and times will be announced at least two weeks prior to the live session
*** Live Sessions will resume in September
Pay only $15 your first month using Discount Code: First15
Testimonials
Testimonials
“This session was so timely and allowed me to put words to how I’ve been feeling in my motherhood journey. It was great to be in community and in a safe space to reflect with others on my journey and feel supported in the process. I learned so much about myself and the way I want to move forward in my motherhood. Truly and deeply grateful for this space and this community.”
-Akirah Hlatshwako, Wife and soon to be mom of two under two
“This session was informative and packed full of good information about child development and tools to apply in my home. I liked this session and the way it could be easily tailored for its audience- there was even room to talk about tantrums in the classroom, which was good insight as a parent of a preschooler in a daycare setting.”
-Savanna Gricius, mother of a 3 year old. “Navigating Toddlerhood Course participant
“This course really helped me understand that in order to effectively parent I have to first identify any and all things going on with myself so that I can guide my son without bias and allow him the true freedom of being a child. My “stuff” is not his to bear and he is his own person. I look forward to exploring the world with him through his pure, unadulterated admiration and delight. I appreciate both the textbook knowledge of the facilitator and real-life experience with her own toddler so she understands exactly what is happening. She’s like the black SuperNanny, but cooler and nicer😎🤗🥰”
-”Navigating Toddlerhood” Course Participant
I really enjoyed this live session. Joy was very knowledgeable and went through the content at a pace that felt easy to follow and understand. Joy gave us the option to ask questions throughout, which I appreciated. She also spent additional time at the end of the session for further questions. Finally she followed up after the session with materials for reading based on the questions asked during the live. It was apparent that Joy enjoys doing this work and you makes the effort to be a trusted advisor on these topics.
- Jennifer Coronel - Married, mom of 4 (26, 23, 10 & 6 yrs old)
“Joy is a patient and empathetic facilitator/educator. When I took the conscious parenting workshop, she made room for our stories and identified with them, and then narrowed in on exactly what we’re asking, rather than going on about abstract theories to show how much she knows. For someone with so much knowledge and information, she is incredibly accessible and humble. She has that unusual quality that makes you want to hear every thing she has to say about all parts of life, and mad at the clock because the time is almost up.”
-Katie, Conscious and Connected Discipline workshop participant
“The course was great and full of actionable steps. The “why” was the most important part to me. Me taking time to evaluate my “why” gave me an opportunity to explore the reasons why I parented the way I did. I left each course making a change whether it was physical or mental. I also really appreciated all of the resources that were given. I’ve already started on a book and my mind is blown!”
-Layci, Parenting Consciously Course Participant
1:1 Parent Coaching
This program is for you if:
Frustration is outweighing joy in your parenting relationship.
You’re overwhelmed or confused by conflicting parenting advice.
You’re not feeling good about the ways you’re addressing your child’s behavior but don’t know what else to do.
You feel like your attempts to parent in positive ways are slowly slipping into permissive parenting.
You’re on the fence about “new age” parenting styles and need coaching to successfully implement it.
You thrive when given tailored support and accountability.
The Conscious, Connected and Creative 1:1 or Group Coaching Program, is a 6-12-week program that is responsive and customized. That means as I get to know you and the specific challenges you are facing, we will move through the program in a way that makes sense for you and your individual needs. Setting clear goals, spending more time where and when you need it, keeping real world situations that arise, and your biggest priorities and concerns at the forefront.
“During our sessions, I felt heard and understood. Joy reminded me that Conscious Parenting is a journey that takes time. She encouraged me to give myself grace and to use the moments of failure as an opportunity to reflect and learn. After working with Joy for three months, I felt confident I could continue on this journey. I came in feeling desperate and confused, and left feeling equipped and confident. Working with Joy was such an impactful and enjoyable experience—I didn’t want it to end!”
-Nadia Bonds, Mom of 2
Program Highlights
Assessing your highest priority needs as well as where you are in your parenting journey.
Identifying and resolving family cultural conflicts with a new parenting approach.
Identify triggers and root causes and explore ways to respond instead of react when triggered.
Acquire a knowledge of general child brain development and stages to help you manage your expectations.
Adjust mindsets, systems, routines, and activities that support child development and peaceful interactions.
Talk through and develop solutions for your real-life scenarios using the knowledge and insight you’ve gained.
Email and text support throughout your program.
Pricing
One time Consultation: $150 for a single 60-minute session.
Customizable Pricing and Payment Plans based on need, available for all consultations and coaching.
Schedule a 30-minute discovery call so we can decide if this program is what you need to begin your parenting transformation. Refundable $50 deposit required.
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